Expectations (Relationships)

Those who know me know that I am not one to have a "boyfriend." I have boys who are friends (really just friends) guys who aren't just friends and guys but boyfriend has never really been my thing. I have always believed that if you make someone your your significant other you can see them in your future. for example I would not date a guy unless i could see him as the father of my kids. (bit far in the future i know but if i don't see you as that there is no reason for us to play the whole game of meeting parents and all that jazz. I thought it kept things simple. MAny of my friends would call that fear. afraid of being hurt. I call it smart. Not wasting time titling and tying yourself down with someone you dont have potential with..... more on this later